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Gilda Ruelas

LMFT • 16 years experience

Pronouns

She/Her

Languages

EnglishSpanish

Location

Ontario, CA

About Me

I am a Marriage and Family Therapist. I practice wealth of knowledge and experience working in several different mental health settings caring for individuals of all ages, including adolescents, and adults. I am California native and obtained her Master's Degree in Psychology/Marriage and Family Therapy from Antioch University Los Angeles. Currently work in an outpatient therapy setting, providing individual, patient-centered, behavioral health treatment. Drawing from 16 years of professional mental health experience, I work to increase patient's self determination to enhance treatment and to help individuals better understand their mental health conditions. I specializes in Solution Focus Brief Therapy sessions, which typically focus on the present and future with focusing on the past only to the degree necessary for communicating empathy and accurate understanding of the client's concerns.

LMFT — Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. An LMFT is a clinically trained mental health professional licensed to diagnose and treat mental, emotional, and relational concerns. Training emphasizes systemic and relational frameworks alongside individual care, with a master's-level clinical degree, supervised post-graduate hours, and a state licensing exam.

Our First Conversation

Our first session is a conversation, not an intake form. I'll ask what brought you in, what you've already tried, and what you're hoping changes. We'll figure out together whether we're a fit; if I think someone else on the team would serve you better, I'll say so. From there, weekly 50-minute sessions are typical for the first few months. We'll check in periodically on what's working and recalibrate if something isn't. I send no homework you didn't agree to, and I don't grade you on between-session work — but I'll often suggest small experiments that move things forward faster than talk alone.

What You Can Count On From Me

The clients who've stayed longest tell me three things stand out. I track the throughline across sessions and bring it back into the room so a pattern you couldn't quite name becomes hard to miss. I push back when I think you're circling something rather than landing on it. And I treat fit as my problem to solve, not yours — if I think someone else on our team would serve you better, I'll say so before you've invested weeks finding out.

Who I’m Here For

My strongest fit is with adults in their 20s through 40s who look like they're handling life from the outside but feel persistently anxious, depleted, or disconnected underneath. That includes professionals running hot from burnout, partners working through the long aftermath of a rupture, and people processing grief or family-of-origin patterns showing up uninvited in adult relationships.


My Therapeutic Approach

I draw primarily on Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). With CBT, I'm less interested in worksheets and more interested in helping you notice the thoughts that drive the loop you're stuck in — and then experimenting with what changes when you respond differently. ACT adds the piece CBT alone can miss: defining what actually matters to you, and using that as the anchor when life pulls in other directions. For clients carrying trauma, I'm trained in EMDR and integrate it when it fits, with full transparency about what we're doing and why.

Treatment Methods

Solution-Focused

An evidence-informed therapeutic approach used by our providers. Ask your therapist how they integrate this method into your work together.

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

CBT helps you identify thought patterns that contribute to anxiety, depression, and stress — then build skills to interrupt and change them. Highly effective and well-researched.

Note: Each session is 60 minutes, whether it’s your first consult or an ongoing visit.

Insurance Accepted

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United Healthcare

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Age Preferences

Young Adults (18-30)Middle Adulthood (30-64)

Clinical Focus

ADHDAnxietyBehavioral ProblemsCoping SkillsDepressionFamily ConflictGrief and LossLife CoachingLife TransitionMood DisordersPTSDSchool ProblemsSelf EsteemTraumaWomen's Issues

Location

Sessions are offered via secure video. Available statewide across California.

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